Give permission to him and what a bad son of his people (or: what a bad man of his people). Then when he entered he spoke politely to him. Aishah said: So I said: O Messenger of Allah, you said about him what you said and then you spoke politely to him? He pbuh said: O Aishah the worst people in station before Allah on the Day of Resurrection are those whom the people desert, or abandon,, in order to save themselves from their evil speech.
(Hadis Sahih by Bukhari and Muslim)
So he treats a close friend in the manner befitting one for whom he has love... and he treats the clear enemy with caution and remains on his guard... and he treats the worst of people in a manner which does not make apparent to him what he thinks of him in his heart, and so on, each one is treated in the appropriate manner. This is from the knowledge necessary for giving dakwah, that he treats everyone in the manner befitting their varying inclinations and manners! It will also not be hidden that one of the best ways of cementing ties and improving relations is Visiting Brothers.
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